Thursday, July 19, 2012

A Smoothie for Bill



‘Youth is wasted on the young.’  I think perhaps papayas are too.

I have been reckless with a good deal of fruit in my day. I have carelessly eaten too many apples without any regard for them. I have gobbled up all kinds of produce never giving them a second thought—not wondering, if and when, the juice from a particularly sweet peach will run down my chin again.

I should know better.

I am in my forties. I can no longer blame youth for my complacency in this matter. I am left to point my finger at delusion. Clearly, I consider myself immortal. I behave like a person that has all the time in the world (and all the peaches too).

True and wise mortals don’t make this mistake. They savor their meals, the company, the setting, the smells, the sounds and even the silence. My father-in-law, Bill, was mortal. Never more so than when he was fighting cancer.

Despite concern, Bill took one last trip to Hawaii. At that point, he was frail, in a wheelchair and had lost most of his sight. The world he experienced was courtesy of his other senses; he heard the waves crashing on the beach, smelled the ocean air and felt the warm tropical breeze on his face.

Even without seeing the place he adored, he knew when he was there. Immediately, his shoulders dropped, his face relaxed and he seemed to melt into the rhythm of the island.

In addition to his love of Hawaii, Bill loved fruit. He was a very fruity guy. Every morning before his rounds as a doctor, he ate a heaping bowl of fruit with a cereal garnish. He never met a fruit he didn’t like.

The Hawaiian Papaya is uniquely delicious. You can’t mistake the flavor after you have tasted it. It is impossible to ship it to the states without losing its integrity. So, when Bill put a fresh slice of Hawaiian Papaya in his mouth, his face lit up.

The next thing you know, he is asking for the phone. He wanted to call a friend who was also battling a grave illness. Bill was hoping he might try a little papaya. He even asked us to send his buddy a dozen.
Bill went bananas for those papayas.

He passed away only days after making it back. He died in his home surrounded by his loving family. Funeral arrangements took place shortly after. Mourning lasted much longer. The inevitably chaos of life dominated our schedules once again. Crates of papayas were never shipped.

I know Bill wanted everyone to have a papaya moment of thier own.

So whether it is this Papaya-Ginger Smoothie, or simply a bowlful of cherries, eat something fruity and sweet. Then take a moment to pause and savor that tiny delicious miracle in your mouth. If you are inspired, share it with someone you love. It might qualify as a mortal sin not to.

*I am grateful to Jeanne Horak-Druiff and her Cook Sister! blog for helping to remember and celebrate cancer survivors and the loved ones who have lost their battles to cancer in “A Taste of Yellow Tribute to Barbara Harris." Thank you for graciously hosting this month's Monthly Mingle virtual potluck.
Ah, the smell of freshly cut mint in the morning.

The papayas were pathetic. 
We're going with frozen bits.

Lemons in light that is lacking.

Proceed gingerly.

A prepped pile of papaya smoothie.

Profile shot.

Pulse. Pour. Slurp. Savor. Share.

This one's for you, Bill. 

From Martha Stewart

Ingredients
1/2 cups papaya (Solo or Mexican) chunks
1 cup ice cubes
2/3 cup nonfat plain yogurt
1 tablespoon finely chopped peeled fresh ginger
1 tablespoon honey
Juice of 2 lemons
16 fresh mint leaves, plus 4 sprigs for garnish
           
Directions
Refrigerate papaya until very cold, at least 1 hour or overnight.
Blend papaya, ice, yogurt, ginger, honey, and lemon juice in a blender. Add up to 1/4 cup water, 1 tablespoon at a time, until mixture is smooth and thinned to desired consistency. Blend in mint leaves. Garnish with mint sprigs.

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